I dey for you if you dey for me🫡

If you no dey for me nothing spoil😌

Friendships, a very sensitive topic.

Oro naa deep…

I think that I am one of the very few people who’s blessed to have so many wonderful people in her corner.

Mo ti encounter awon oloribu sha o..

Pardon my French😌

I was really into this keep your circle small p, at some point in my life, but omoo…..

Omooooo

I do not think it works for me tbh🤷🏾‍♀️

Although putting a label on every relationship is something I need to stop doing.

Heavy on that still

Like love, I think everyone defines friendship in their own way.

I have been to many places over the course of my life , I have met amazing people and I don’t care if they are 100 billion zillion, they are my friends.

My relationship between all of them just differs.

Before the end of last year, I did something. I typed out personalized notes to each and everyone one of my friends and it gave me time to reflect on how they have been there for me. This year’s gonna be a bangerrr.

I’m getting emoshhhh🥺🥺

Insert I dey for you my friend by Johnny drille😭

Imagine this babe sending me a 1hr video that was explaining how much of a wonderful person I am and how good I should be feeling about myself , when overthinking got the best of me. Or how this guy will randomly send me a 30 minutes worship video to connect with my maker and still send me a steady amapiano bop. Few days ago, I was very sick and this uncle came to pick me up from where I was at night just to make sure I was okay😭

Believe me, if you no believe, rest🙄. I have barely scratched the surface.

Let me show you something 😭😭

Screams in lucky 😭😭😭

And these people got me birthday gifts, I was/am overwhelmed too overwhelmed.  If I start to talk or mention ways in which my friends have been godsends and I’m not even speaking materially.

My goodnessssssss

We no go comot here today.

I pray that I get to that point in my life where I spoil my friends to stupor.

Well, I have had bad friends and at some point, I have been a bad friend and I have learnt from my mistakes and I have moved on. You should too😌

At the end of the day, I think it all comes down to our perception of what friendship means. I have acquaintances still, but I am very intentional about the people I call my friends. In good or bad, I’ll not have it any other way.

I love you so very much too much mes amis❤️

Thank you for reading.

Love,

Tdb🫶🏾